Dayyouth.

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People used to say in the past:


"Behind every man is a great woman."

But today we say: "Behind every female Mutabarridjah is a Dayyouth.”

Mutabarrijah: woman who publicly exposes her beauty to non-mahram men.

Dayyouth: a cuckold, a sorry excuse of a man, he lacks protective jealousy over his wife. He lets his wife commit sin as she pleases; such as exposing her beauty in public, or wearing perfume in public, and so on from the impermissible actions that negate modesty and chastity.



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